Dharma

A practice, not a hobby

I was ordained into the Triratna Buddhist Order in 2026 after more than twelve years of practice. This page gathers everything on the site about that life.

Sīlavāpi is the name I was given at ordination. It is rooted in sīla - ethical practice - which feels right: for me the dharma has never been separate from work, community, or how a piece of software treats the people who use it.

Away from the cushion I'm a trustee of Breathworks, a charity teaching mindfulness-based approaches to living with pain and illness - work that sits very close to my own experience of living with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

Black-and-white portrait of Sīlavāpi, gaze lifted away from the camera
A name is not a costume. It is a direction of travel.
Sīlavāpi

Writing

Dharma on the blog

A photo of three women wearing blue robes, Sīlavāpi in the middle with a white strip of cloth called a kesa around her neck with the symbol of the Triratna movement - a yellow, red and blue drop on a lotus surrounded by a ring of flames - the woman on the left is wearing a saffron coloured kesa. Both women on the left and right of Sīlavāpi are much older. All three are smiling to the camera.
05 July, 2026 Buddhism

Introducing Sīlavāpi

Over the last three months I’ve attended an 11‑week residential ordination retreat up in the mountains of Aragón in southern Spain. During this retreat I was ordained into the Triratna Buddhist Order and given the name Sīlavāpi by my preceptor, Acalavajrī…